{"id":156,"date":"2004-08-15T18:52:50","date_gmt":"2004-08-15T22:52:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/netcommissioner.com\/askandy\/?p=156"},"modified":"2011-11-05T18:57:52","modified_gmt":"2011-11-05T22:57:52","slug":"issue-39-mid-august-2004","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/netcommissioner.com\/askandy\/2004\/08\/issue-39-mid-august-2004\/","title":{"rendered":"Issue 39 &#8211; Mid-August 2004"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Well, the summer\u2019s starting to wrap up, and here we are, beginning to look forward to the start of school and the Fall Scouting programs. So, I thought I\u2019d take a personal moment and share with you a letter I received from my grandson, Andy III. Here it is&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><em>Dear Grampa,<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><em>Our Scoutmaster told us all to write home in case you saw the flood on TV and worried. We are OK. Only one of our tents and two sleeping bags got washed away. Lucky, none of us got drowned because we were all up on the mountain looking for Chad when it happened. Oh yeah, please call Chad&#8217;s mom and tell her he\u2019s OK. He just can&#8217;t write right now because of the cast. Grampa, you know those search and rescue jeeps? I got to ride in one and it was real cool!<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><em> We wouldn\u2019t have found Chad in the dark, probably, but the lightning helped a lot. Our Scoutmaster (he likes us to call him Snake) got mad at Chad for going on a hike alone without telling anyone. Chad said he did tell him, but it was during the fire so Snake probably didn&#8217;t hear him. Hey, did you know that if you put a can of gas on a fire, it\u2019ll blow up? The wet wood still didn&#8217;t burn, but one of our tents did. Also some of our clothes. My tent buddy John is going to look a little weird for a while, but Snake told him hair grows back pretty fast. Even eyebrows.<br \/>\n<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><em> We\u2019ll be home on Saturday if Snake gets the car fixed. It wasn&#8217;t his fault about the wreck. The brakes worked OK when we left. Snake told us that a car that old, you have to expect something to break down. That&#8217;s probably why he can&#8217;t get insurance on it. We think it&#8217;s cool that he doesn&#8217;t care if we get it dirty. And if it\u2019s hot, like yesterday, he lets us ride on the tailgate of the trailer, cause it gets pretty hot with ten kids in a car. He let us take turns riding in the trailer till the highway patrolman stopped and talked to us. Snake had other names for the patrolman, but he said we can\u2019t write those in our letters. He\u2019s even teaching Terry to drive\u2014Terry got picked because he can see over the steering wheel better than others. But, don\u2019t worry\u2014Snake only lets Terry drive on the mountain roads where there isn&#8217;t much traffic. All we ever see up there are logging trucks.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><em> This morning all of the guys were diving off the rocks and swimming out in the lake. Snake wouldn&#8217;t let me because I can&#8217;t swim and Chad was afraid he\u2019d sink because of his cast, so Snake let us take the canoes across the lake, instead. It was cool. You can still see some of the trees under the water from the flood. <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><em>Snake isn&#8217;t crabby like some Scoutmasters I\u2019ve heard about. He didn&#8217;t even get mad about the life jackets or the other canoe. <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><em>We have a lot of free time to explore the caves nearby, because Snake has to spend a lot of time working on the car. Did you know bat guano tastes sorta like dry oatmeal? Or at least that\u2019s what Billy says.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><em>Guess what? We\u2019ve all passed our First Aid merit badges! When Scotty dove in the lake and cut his arm, we got to see how a tourniquet works. Also, Wally and I threw up. Snake said it probably was just food poisoning from the leftover chicken. He told us how he used to get sick a lot that way with the food they got in the \u201cbig house\u201d (whatever that is). I have to go now. We\u2019re going into town to mail our letters and buy bullets. Don&#8217;t worry about anything. We\u2019re fine.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><em>Love to you and Mom and Dad,<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><em>Andy III<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><em>P.S., How long has it been since I had a tetanus shot?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Remember the Scout who asked about US Presidents who had been Scouts, and who received the Silver Buffalo award? Well, Corey did some great work, and I\u2019d like to share it with you&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>Hi Andy,<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>Your question to me was a lot easier than finding out who received the Silver Buffalo Awards. Gerald Ford was the first Eagle Scout to become President, and as far as I can find, he was the only Eagle. I think that every President since 1929 received the Silver Buffalo. The first one I can find that actually mentions it is Franklin D. Roosevelt, but I&#8217;m still going to research a little more. Here\u2019s what I put together for my Scoutmaster. Thanks for all your help, Corey Johnson<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Gerald R. Ford \u2013 First Eagle to become President (38<sup>th<\/sup>)<br \/>\nTroop 15, Grand Rapids, MI in 1927<br \/>\n26 Merit Badges, including Civics<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">John F Kennedy &#8211; First US President who was a scout \u2013 Star Scout<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">William J Clinton &#8211; Cub Scout<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">George W. Bush &#8211; Cub Scout<\/span><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"Silver Buffalo\" src=\"http:\/\/netcommish.com\/silverbuffalo.jpg\" alt=\"Silver Buffalo\" width=\"400\" height=\"219\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>Silver Buffalo Award<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>Herbert Hoover<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>Franklin Roosevelt<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>Harry Truman<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>Dwight Eisenhower<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>John Kennedy<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>Lyndon Johnson<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>Richard Nixon<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>Gerald Ford<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>Jimmy Carter<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>Ronald Reagan<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>George Bush<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>William Clinton<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>George W Bush<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">You may also remember that, in responding to Todd Biggs about a possible Hunting Merit Badge, I said, \u201cI never heard of a Merit Badge that had, as a requirement, the earning of other Merit Badges\u201d? Well, I\u2019ve got some sharp-eyed and informed readers, because right after that column came out, here are two emails I got in an eye-blink&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>Hi Andy,<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>I look forward to reading your columns as they come out, and I\u2019ve found them very useful. I just wanted to let you know that I just read your August column tonight, and believe it to be one of the best yet, especially your response to the Scout who wanted to quit. I especially like your column because it helps me to see what other councils do. Here, they do a few things differently (not necessarily wrong, mind you). So thanks for your effort\u2014it\u2019s appreciated. And, you must earn First Aid to earn Emergency Preparedness, and Swimming for Lifesaving. But I\u2019d like to learn more about this pilot merit badge program! Thanks! (Michael Morris, CC, Pack 214; ASM, Troop 25, Greater Saint Louis Council)<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"> Hey Andy, <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"> I was just reading through your latest column and had something to add. In regards to that new Hunting merit badge, you stated you\u2019ve &#8220;Never heard of a Merit Badge that had, as a requirement, the earning of other Merit Badges!&#8221; Well, it\u2019s out there. The Emergency Preparedness MB requires that you earn First Aid first. I don&#8217;t want to nitpick your great (and very helpful) column, but I felt compelled to address this. (Kortney Jendro, DC, Viking Council)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Thanks to Michael and Kortney (and probably some others, who saw my goof but didn\u2019t write), I get twenty lashes with a wet lanyard for forgetting about that First Aid-Emergency Preparedness MB combo! But would you believe that Swimming is NOT required to earn Lifesaving? Yup, that&#8217;s right. So, only ten lashes? Naaaah! I\u2019ll take all twenty! I can handle it!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">And another sharp-eyed reader, on the subject of devices on religious square knots&#8230; <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>Hi Andy,<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>I saw your response to the question of knot devices on the youth religious knot. While you were largely correct, you missed the fact that for some religions there are TWO religious awards that Boy Scouts can earn. There is one for boys 11-14, then another one for boys 14-18 that is earned by older Boy Scouts, Varsity Scouts, or Venturer. So a Boy Scout could earn two additional religious awards. This is one of the reasons why there are knot devices for Varsity Scouts and Venturers. So, if I saw a Boy Scout with both a Boy Scout knot device AND a Venturing knot device on his religious square knot, I\u2019d know that he had earned two religious awards. (Michael Brown)<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Yup, Mike\u2019s absolutely right, and my answer was incomplete! (Those lashes are beginning to sting a little \u2013 Guess I\u2019m not as tough as I thought!)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>Dear Andy,<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>I continue to read and re-read your Ask Andy columns. I feel you\u2019re providing Scouters with good advice on how leaders should have the same, or better, Scout Spirit in leading units that we expect from our Scouts. Recently, after reading a Troop\u2019s &#8220;By-Laws&#8221;, I questioned an attendance clause that stated, \u201cIf a Scout did not attend 50% of the Troop actives (weekly meetings) he could not go on campouts with the Troop. The Troop\u2019s goal was to have strong attendance and meet the camping requirement for the National Quality Unit award. My question: If a Scout is missing meetings, is keeping him from going on campouts helpful to the Scout? Wouldn\u2019t the better question be: Why is the Scout not active? (Don McDow, UC. Greater Alabama Council)<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Thanks for your continuing readership, and thanks even more for asking good questions! Let&#8217;s take a whack at this &#8220;attendance legislation&#8221;&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">A Troop can try to &#8220;legislate&#8221; participation, but what they\u2019ll ultimately get is a spiral of diminishing returns. Let&#8217;s take a few chops at this &#8220;50% rule,&#8221; just to make sure we understand how silly and self-defeating it is&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">&#8211; <\/span><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Why 50%? Why not 20%? 80%? 75%? 90%? 45%?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">&#8211; <\/span><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">How is 50% a &#8220;magic number&#8221;?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">&#8211; <\/span><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">What happens when it&#8217;s an odd number of meetings?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">&#8211; <\/span><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Does the campout itself count toward the 50%?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">&#8211; <\/span><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">If a Scout attends 50% of the meetings, but he\u2019s a total goof-off while there, he can still go on campouts, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">&#8211; <\/span><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Suppose his parents have taken their Scout son out of town on a trip for a couple of weeks. Does this mean that, even though he wasn\u2019t in town and couldn\u2019t attend, he gets \u201cdocked\u201d?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">&#8211; <\/span><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">If, in the case above, the Scout <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">doesn\u2019t<\/span> get docked, then let\u2019s see the entire list of legitimate reasons for non-attendance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">&#8211; <\/span><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">How do we know the attendance records are correct? Who monitors and verifies them?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Finally, what about Scouts who think to themselves, \u201cHey, I can ditch half the meetings and I still get to go camping! Cool, Dude!&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">If, by now, no one gets the idea that this is a pretty dumb \u201crule,\u201d I&#8217;d better give up! The simple facts of the matter are these:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">PROGRAM PRODUCES PARTICIPATION \u2013 SCOUTS &#8220;VOTE&#8221; WITH THEIR FEET&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">This silly &#8220;rule&#8221; of theirs tells me that they&#8217;re <em>lazy<\/em>. If attendance is falling off, it&#8217;s time to start making some phone calls and find out what the problem is. That&#8217;s the job of the Scoutmaster and his ASMs, or the membership person on the Troop Committee. Leaning on a rule instead of bucking up and doing their jobs just isn\u2019t the way to go! When a Troop runs interesting, active, involving, and FUN Troop meetings, participation is never an issue. When a Troop runs outings that are equally fun, interesting, challenging, and involving, guess what happens: SCOUTS SHOW UP.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">On top of everything else, it&#8217;s the job of the PATROL LEADER, and not &#8220;the Troop,&#8221; to see that all members of his Patrol are &#8220;present and accounted for&#8221; at Troop meetings! That&#8217;s part of his leadership job, and this &#8220;rule&#8221; of theirs is depriving the Troop&#8217;s youth leaders of their important responsibilities.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Most boys and young men who are active Scouts are usually active in other ways too\u2014like sports in their seasons, extracurricular school activities and clubs, church and synagogue youth groups, and on and on. Penalizing the most active youths because they have conflicts at certain times of the year, or on certain nights from time to time, is anathema to the spirit of the Scouting movement. This Troop needs to stop being &#8220;governed&#8221; by the adults and needs to start being run by the Scouts. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>Hi Andy,<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>I\u2019ve looked everywhere and can\u2019t find guidelines on where to wear the Eagle Palms. Can you help? (\u201cJGDUNIGAN\u201d)<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Good news! The BSA book, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">INSIGNIA GUIDE &#8211; 2003-2005<\/span> (No. 33066D \u2013 get one at your Scout Shop), states (go to page 23) that Eagle palms are &#8220;Worn only on the Eagle Award ribbon or Eagle square knot.&#8221; So, that&#8217;s two places. If you&#8217;re a Scout, you wear your palm(s) on your Eagle ribbon (horizontally on the cloth). If you&#8217;re a Scouter, you can attach your palm(s) to the red-white-and-blue square knot that you wear above the left pocket of your uniform shirt.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">And here\u2019s a tip\u2014 Be sure to wear the correct palms for the number of merit badges earned, remembering that they&#8217;re not &#8220;cumulative.&#8221; By this, I mean that, for the first five MBs, for example, you\u2019d wear a bronze palm, and if you earn five more for a total of ten MBs, the bronze palm comes OFF and you wear a gold palm in its place. For 15 MBs, it\u2019s a silver palm, but not all three. For 20, you wear a bronze and a sliver. Etcetera. Now, you\u2019ll see some guys wearing a bronze AND a gold AND a silver palm, and let\u2019s hope that they\u2019ve actually earned 30 MBs beyond those needed for Eagle, and that they haven\u2019t simply continued to pin stuff on their ribbons or square knots! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>Hi Andy,<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>Our District is looking for a Boy Scout Roundtable Commissioner. We haven\u2019t had one for some time now. I\u2019ve never been one. If I take the position, what advice can you give me? Also, what training should I take first? I don\u2019t want to see our District suffer or be weak, but I just need a good focus on doing this job if I do take it. (Mike Dallago, SM, Troop 64, Sunshine District, Yucca Council, NM)<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">First off, thanks for being a Scoutmaster\u2014this is one of the most important Boy Scouting volunteer positions anyone could possibly have! As long as you enjoy it, and have time for it, you may very well want to continue for at least a few more years (after about three or so years\u2014but not much more than this!\u2014as Scoutmaster, it&#8217;s a good idea to consider a change, because longer than that and folks in the Troop start considering you &#8220;permanent&#8221; and stop thinking about transitioning to the next Scoutmaster, so that your tenure begins to look like a &#8220;reign&#8221;). (If, at this point, you get the idea that I&#8217;m not terribly impressed by guys who take pride in having been a SM for 10 or 20 years, you&#8217;re right\u2014the baton should be passed, I firmly believe, to new people whom the present SM has identified and trained to succeed him. This avoids &#8220;calcification&#8221; and keep Troops fresh, vibrant, and up-to-date.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">By the way, did you know that it&#8217;s actual BSA policy that Commissioners do not hold key unit leadership positions? Bet you didn&#8217;t! Few folks realize this, and even fewer abide by it, but it&#8217;s the right way to go, and the BSA recognizes all too well that a Scoutmaster can&#8217;t &#8220;serve two masters.&#8221; So, if you really want to take on the job of Boy Scout Roundtable Commissioner\u2014whether now, or at some time in the future\u2014be prepared to replace yourself as Scoutmaster! Trust me on this\u2014the burden becomes too great when we start wearing too many volunteer &#8220;hats&#8221; and you&#8217;ll wind up doing no job as well as you&#8217;d like. And, don&#8217;t fall into the trap of thinking, &#8220;Well, <em>I&#8217;ll<\/em> handle it <em>differently<\/em>&#8230;&#8221; Ain&#8217;t gonna happen!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">That said, if you do decide to take the job of BSRT Commissioner, there&#8217;s definitely training available for you. Check out your council&#8217;s Commissioner College or Conference\u2014training for all types of Commissioners. From the BSA Supply Division or your Scout Shop, get these: BOY SCOUT ROUND-TABLE COMMISSIONER TRAINING (LT34256), BOY SCOUT ROUNDTABLE PLANNING GUIDE-REVISED (LT34253A), COMMISSIONER ADMINISTRATION (LT34128D), and COMMISSIONER VOLUNTEER DUTIES DESCRIPTION CARD (LT34265B). Then, plan to recruit a STAFF as well\u2014Roundtable leadership isn&#8217;t a one-man job. The job of BSRT Commissioner can be very rewarding. It&#8217;s more like being a Cubmaster than Scoutmaster, though. Your job isn&#8217;t to &#8220;run&#8221; the meetings or provide the training and programs by yourself. Your job is to reach out and recruit speakers, demonstrators, and others who actually put on the program every month, and then you function as the Master of Ceremonies. Do it differently, and you&#8217;ll hit burn-out very quickly. The training materials will tell you much more than there&#8217;s space for here. Best wishes!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Paul Wengert (had a problem a few weeks ago with the changing Cub and Webelos requirement changes) writes again&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>Hi Andy,<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>Well, I\u2019m taking a deep breath and untying my knickers. It&#8217;s made so much more complicated when there are updates to the boys&#8217; books, but nothing to update the leader\u2019s materials. I had to be on my toes to realize, for instance, that following the Webelos Leader Guide-Den Schedule (where the Citizen activity badge was part of Arrow of Light and therefore scheduled for the second Webelos year) means the boys in the Den would not have an opportunity to achieve Webelos rank in a timely manner. I sure wish that &#8220;they&#8221; would better communicate these changes to us leaders! Here\u2019s another example: We\u2019re told in the 2004-05 &#8220;Cub Scout Program Helps&#8221; to plan a program that will allow our boys to earn the 75th anniversary award for Cub Scouting\u2014which is a terrific idea\u2014but the BSA is only releasing the requirements for that award at the very end of August, and I\u2019m already pretty well done with planning by then. Anyway, thanks as ever. (Paul Wengert)<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Well, now that your knickers are untied, let&#8217;s add a little something more: ABSOLUTELY RIGID FLEXIBILITY. This means that you can &#8220;roll&#8221; with the punches, or as my Scouter-Marine friend put it (this is my all-time favorite), \u201c<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">SEMPER GUMBY<\/span>\u201d! Always flexible\u2014that&#8217;s the way to be! Couldn&#8217;t plug in the 75th Anniversary award stuff when you sat down and planned things out? Well, once you get &#8217;em, change the plan\u2014It&#8217;s only written on paper; not chipped in granite! Scouting&#8217;s a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">movement<\/span>, not an &#8220;organization&#8221; in the sense of a corporation, army, etc. Sure, it has its red tape, and sometimes the cart&#8217;s before the horse, but, hey, we&#8217;re volunteers here, and we&#8217;re supposed to be having fun! Which \u201cKISMIF\u201d do you want&#8230; Keep Inflexible Structure-Make it Fail or Keep It Simple-Make It Fun!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>Dear Andy,<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><strong><em>After reading your answer about the two same-sex couples and their sons, I was floored by your reply! After a great effort was put forth by the National BSA to assert the &#8220;right of association&#8221; all the way to the highest court in the land, you of all people should know that the BSA and its members do not approve of same-sex unions. As for them being in the scout unit, all scouts and scout leaders are bound by the National polices, which address same-sex unions as not living within nor reflecting the values of the BSA. As for their sons, they can be welcome members if they support the values of the BSA. But this would be hard to do without stating that you think the union of your two &#8220;parents&#8221; is wrong! This is one place where their life-style CHOICE does not fit the life-style choice of the rest of the group. Your reply echoes &#8220;Everyone\u2019s doing it&#8221;, because there are a few people who wish to live this way. Scouts need to learn that it is totally W-R-O-N-G. Please provide me with any National BSA polices that support your point of view. (Don McDow, UC, Greater Alabama Council)<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">My reply pertained to two sets of positive-minded parents who supported their sons\u2019 interests in being Boy Scouts. Nothing less, and nothing more. Shall we \u201cpunish\u201d these two young men by refusing their applications to joint the Boy Scouts when they, themselves have done not a thing \u201cwrong\u201d? How is the BSA or anyone else for that matter permitted to &#8220;punish&#8221; a youth who is &#8220;guilty&#8221; of having same-sex parents? Is this the youth&#8217;s &#8220;fault&#8221;? Shall we exclude these young men from the values of Scouting because of their parents&#8217; situation? There have been cases of Scouts whose parents were atheists, yet these Scouts attained the rank of Eagle. Why? Because, my friend, the BSA did not automatically assume that the Scout&#8217;s values were identical to his parents&#8217;. To do otherwise denies the right of the individual to determine and establish his own values. I stand by my answer\u2014which is, once again, my personal opinion on the matter\u2014100%. And I will not vary it, or waffle. I have not said &#8220;everyone&#8217;s doing it,&#8221; so kindly don&#8217;t put words in my mouth. I have definitely said that, with each passing day, alternative life-styles are becoming more apparent. You will also notice that I did NOT address the issue of such parents taking a registered leadership role on their respective Troops\u2014that is an entirely different issue. I did address the point that they, as parents, need to and have the right to support their own sons&#8217; interests. If you can find fault with the notion of supporting the interests of one&#8217;s children, so be it. Yes, this is an emotionally charged area. However, good sense (not &#8220;common&#8221; sense) should prevail, and the youth should ALWAYS be the WINNER!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"> Happy Scouting!<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Andy<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">Got a question? Send it to me at<\/span><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"mailto:AskAndyBSA@yahoo.com\"><span style=\"color: #663300;\">AskAndyBSA@yahoo.com<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #663300; font-family: verdana;\">-be sure to let me know your Scouting position, town, state, and council!<\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\">(Mid-August 2004 \u2013 Copyright \u00a9 2004 Andy McCommish)<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well, the summer\u2019s starting to wrap up, and here we are, beginning to look forward to the start of school and the Fall Scouting programs. So, I thought I\u2019d take a personal moment and share with you a letter I received from my grandson, Andy III. 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